Fate is Destiny

       Love is a symbol of eternity. Just like what mathematics conveys to its fellow mathematician, “It is infinite. It will never end.” An English professor having a lecture to his brilliant students, “It conveys in variety of language, that is why often times we cannot understand.” And for the scientists thinking logically, “No single thing is permanent. Only change.” Sometimes, loves does change! I agree. Seems like everything is connected to what people call a four-letter word, LOVE right?
       Love experts say more than often than not, those who were born intelligent were the ones who become blind with that magical emotion and are weak likewise ignorant, do unimaginable decisions and often end with heartbreak. Ouch! It hurts. An arrow hit!
       How come then that the love experts know this reality? Are nit they the people who supposed to not know this? Gotcha1 Love experts were not gifted by much intelligence, only by mere love! Kind of, maybe.
       Love is all around us. While walking down the road, who knows that your soul mate Is just one meter away from you? While you were in kindergarten, who can foretell that your seatmate will be your first girlfriend/boyfriend as you grow as a teenager? Specifically, who could imagine that your ideal partner to be with you forever someday is your mortal enemy during your high school or even college days? Most of all, it is nothing but really not impossible when a simple crush stage ends up to a deep falling in love feeling? Do not worry. I know how you feel. You are not alone.
       Weird and there comes the instance that you just unexpectedly blurts out, ‘totally awkward! Kinda sucks, huh?’ Laughs. Olah! You are undeniably in love! A normal thing for our generation already.
       Different love experiences, random love definitions, various beliefs, unique ways in sharing techniques seeking love advices coming from close friends. Those were just the ‘ordinary becomes extraordinary’ happenings highlighted by love. But you know what? If you are to ask me, I still do believe I destiny whatever happens, really. No matter how you try if he/she is not fated to be with you, it is useless unless you are so desperate to get him/her without even noticing that causes you already too much pain just because of that pathetic desire of yours. Make sense lovers.
       An optimistic single but a truthful lover speaks like this: This is not yet my shining moment to be with him/her. We are on our ways to finally meet at the perfect place on the perfect time. Love can wait.
       Well, I have a friend who never committed on a relationship but yes, she once trusted a guy. Later on, she was falling on a trap that is so irresistible. Blinded through those trusted yet lie phrases, her remaining pride eventually ruined her for almost a year. Suddenly, a sign came and that made her realize to stop those foolish acts. In a way, she learnt. Gladly, that feeling had gone by the wind and now dying. It is not my friend’s destiny though. Now, she is happy committing to our Redeemer and almighty Savior with the love of her family, friends and teachers. God has better plans for her.
       In fact, God created us because of his unconditional love for everybody and for His passion. Aren’t you thinking twice, or even ask yourselves a thousand times if you may want so, how great is that sacrifice He did for us to lie? And all He wanted in return is to serve Him and His people. All because of love! How wonderful, isn’t it?
       Love is the center of it all. For that, I made God the center of my life. He challenges me as the sun rises, and faces it all before the sun sets. Our majesty took me to a certain place for a reason. My destiny, my fate.
      The only thing I believe in, “we cannot fight the fate”. That’s it!
      What about you? Have you met your destiny yet? The imperfect yet ideal someone? What about your fate either? The choice is yours. It is in your hands to decide who the guy/girl you want to give and share your eternal love but it is Him who knows what is best and is the one who will guide you as you start fulfilling your dreams through the destiny He lay on you. It is just a matter of waiting, appreciating and believing that fate is just there. Everything has its own purpose. Live on love.